Q:We sort of rushed into the purchase of a piece of land and now we just don't know where to turn for help.

We didn't know about septic systems (I know that sounds naive but we came from a large city) so we didn't have the land "perked". Now we've started the process of getting a septic design and are blown away by everything we have to do. We have to get something called a Critical Areas Review (for $800 deposit and it could go higher) and then the design itself, for $1,500 plus King County fees.

We have to drill a well, which will be at least $10,000 according to the well driller, plus the cost of developing the water system, whatever that means. Plus, we've talked to the County and they say we have to prove the lot was subdivided before 1972. We don't even know how to begin doing that. We're thinking of selling the land and forgetting the whole thing, but we really do love the property and Vashon Island.

A: Take a deep breath and let's talk. Of course you should have looked into all of this before you bought and you should have worked with someone who would have educated you about it beforehand, but you didn't. Don't despair. Others have been there before you and managed to get through this.

Go one step at a time. Take the advice of the excellent King County Technician who comes out to the Island every week. He will walk you through the process. If you really feel like you're floundering there are folks who will act as a project manager for you and do the County paperwork for you.

As for the date the lot was subdivided, that should be in your title documents. Call your title company and have them find the proper document to prove the age of the lot. If you are working with a local builder they're often willing to be involved in the land development process. Read, study, learn. Take your time and get it right.